What to say when you don't know what to say

What to say when you don't know what to say

What you have to say is what the world needs to hear - right now. Things will never get better if the ugly truth stays in the shadows. No amount of spiritual bypassing will ever make our shameful past go away. You can't "love and light" this shit out of existence nor can you LOA it out of the DNA of our sister of color.

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Release your inner rebel
Connection, Finding Your Voice, Speaking Out Kristina Shands Connection, Finding Your Voice, Speaking Out Kristina Shands

Release your inner rebel

I’ve never been a rebel. Well, except that one year in college when I worked at the school radio station and spent weekends dressed like a confused goth/grunge rocker - Doc Martens, black eyeliner, big hair, bleached jeans, the works.

But mostly, I’ve spent my life not rocking the boat. Not drawing attention to myself. Staying in the background.

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Releasing me
Finding Your Voice, Speaking Out Kristina Shands Finding Your Voice, Speaking Out Kristina Shands

Releasing me

There is a siren, fire starter, eternal flame, wild woman buried within. I've seen only glimpses of her over the past 40 years.

She is fierce, bold, unrelenting, unpredictable.

But have no worries. You are safe from her defiance. She is locked up nice and tight. No way she will ever be able to break free of the chains keeping her hidden from the world.

Until she finds the courage to speak out. To be heard. To face the fear of being seen for who she truly is. Who she always was. Who she shall always be.

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